I am 30, bi, male plus in a marriage that is heterosexual. I’ve always had intercourse longs for both genders. 6 months ago, I finally admitted to myself I’m bi and started checking out pornography that is different fantasies. We waited a couple of months ahead of being released to my really modern partner who’s closest friend is bi and has now a transgender son or daughter.
After fourteen many years of dating, wedding, and monogamy. She puked once I informed her. Literally puked. We explained I didn’t would you like to start the connection or make any modifications, We only desired her to understand. Fast ahead a couple of months and she brings it again—this was three evenings ago—by asking the things I would do with some guy or trans girl in a hypothetical situation and we explained I’d try such a thing. She puked once again.
I’ve had an eternity to come quickly to terms with personal sex. I am aware she needs time and energy to process, make inquiries, and arrived at terms with whatever brand new view she has of me personally. She’s asked for we don’t tell anyone away from our wedding (her friend that is best does know and has assisted significantly by conversing with her) and has now also gone since far to state she wouldn’t normally have hitched me personally had she understood right from the start.